Hey Everyone,
It has been a while since I sent my last update 6 months ago
so there is a lot to cover. Hope you enjoy the update and as always
it would be great if everyone who hasn't emailed lately would
contact me so I know how things are in your life.
When I left off I was heading to Romania as I remember. The details
of the rest of the trip will have to come another time but here
is the two paragraph version of what happened over the rest of
the summer with the rest of the Eastern Europe trip coming first.
Romania was great as I met tons of cool people and did some amazing
hiking. The local people there were incredibly helpful and made
it a pleasant country, however the food was atrocious. One really
cool thing about Romania was that you hitched to get places especially
in the country. On such time was when I got a ride back as it
started to rain from the Piatra Craiului National Park (see Romania_Hitching
picture). After that was Bulgaria which started by spending a
week in Varna, near the black sea. While I was there at, Gregory's
Backpackers, I met a load of amazing travelers and played soccer
with the locals. After that I moved onto Veliko Tarnovo, the best
city of the Eastern European swing, where I rented a car 2 days
with 2 groups of different people. We were able to get out into
the natural areas and that made it really cool there. After Plovdiv,
was the southwestern part of Bulgaria where I went hiking in the
spectacular Pirin and Rila mountains with Moti, who was a guy
I met from Israel. The hiking in these 2 locations was the best
of the trip and the 7 Lakes (see 7_Lakes picture) area near Rila
is one of the ten most beautiful places I have EVER been. I really
need to go back to both mountain areas when I have several weeks
I can spend hiking there. After getting to Sofia, the capital
of Bulgaria, I bought the tickets to go back to Western Europe
from Croatia. This gave me one week to get through 2 other countries
before catching my flights. Serbia was nothing spectacular, but
to being in the capital city of Beograd doesn't give you much
of a chance to experience much. After that I went headed for Durmitor
National Park in Montenegro with Fleud & Patrick, which was
beautiful, but I only had a couple days to see that before heading
onto Croatia. In Budva, I caught up with Natasha & Fiona,
who I had originally met in Plovdiv and who I spent the last couple
days with in Croatia. I nearly missed my flight from Dubrovnik,
Croatia to Brussels, Belgium but with a lot of help from some
really nice locals was able to make it. I was seriously standing
on a road with no chance of getting to the airport when a local
befriended me, called his friend and they took me there making
them late for what they were doing. To be honest I had really
did anything wrong as there was hopeless traffic issues that were
conspiring against me getting there by public transport. Either
way I was totally saved by that guy and his friend.
Belgium has tons of great buildings, but to be honest was quite
a boring and lonely place for me. It is the first time since being
in New Caledonia in 2004 (which also speaks French) that I didn't
meet people to talk to and hang out with. Either way I was happy
to leave Belgium a couple days early to go see my good friends
Tim and An in the southern part of the Netherlands (near Maastricht).
They put me up for over a week and I loved my time there. It was
so great to hang out with them and see the country all while doing
cool things like checking out a Reggae concert. It was really
amazing how similar life there was to life at home and even the
scenery looked very similar. After that I left to meet Rob in
Amsterdam for 4 days. Staying in the city was well outside of
our budget, so we stayed 45 minutes out of Amsterdam, but even
there it was still expensive. To be honest Amsterdam really wasn't
my thing. I am not into prostitution or smoking joints which is
what most of the other tourists were into. However, I enjoyed
my time with Rob and taught him how to play Yaniv (an Israel card
game), which is my favorite card game ever and one that I learned
while I was in Bulgaria. It was good to chill with Rob so I enjoyed
that part, but I don't see myself going back to Amsterdam anytime
soon. After that I spent a couple days in Rotterdam on my own
before heading to Germany to stay with Nina. Nina and her boyfriend
Benedikt were cool to stay with and Nina's dad even took me out
sightseeing one day and her mom prepared us a big lunch, which
was great. It was great to catch up with Nina, since I hadn't
seen her since 2006. After that it was back to London and Ash
and Cally's house for my last 4 days. While I was there I was
able to see several groups of awesome friends each night. One
such group was Leanne, Lucy, Matt & James (see English_Friends
picture). I just love London, I have more friends there than anyplace
else in the world I think. I was so spoiled by everyone there
and the city is so amazing it is a place I could see myself going
back to many more times, and everyone knows that I am not really
a city person :) There were so many people who treated me so great
and to try to thank them all by name would make this an even more
ridiculously long email. So for all the people I didn't name here
know that I remember all the cool stuff you did for me!
In the last month of the trip I had started communicating a lot
with a girl back home named Joan. She had been my Spanish tutor
while I was at the University of Wisconsin-Platteville (UWP) the
year before. Well long story short we got together when I got
back. Of course nothing ever being normal in my life she left
for Spain to study for the rest of the semester only 4 days after
I got home! After a few weeks in Spain she decided she wanted
to spend the spring semester with me in Guadalajara, Mexico. Well
there was a ton of work to get this all accomplished for her,
but after a month plus of hard work we were able to get everything
setup. We seemed to have a really great relationship and talked
most Tuesday, Thursday & Sunday for several hours. Now for
the twist, in early November we broke up after I found out she
had been lying to and cheating on me all while in the past several
weeks of our relationship making me think I was doing things wrong.
Originally I was devastated, I can't lie. However, I had so many
awesome friends and family members there to pick me up. After
a week I was already feeling better off to know her true character.
Plus it allowed me to move onto better things, more on that later
:)
Everyone who has read these emails know how much I love my nephew
John. Well shortly after I got home I became an uncle for the
second time! On September 12, 2008 Shelby Ruth Waterman was born
to my brother Thad and his wife Kristy. She was 9 pounds and 1
ounce and 21 inches long at birth. Her middle name is from my
grandma Ruth and Kristy's grandma as well. The great part for
me was that I was home for the birth this time! I put all the
pictures from her birth on facebook.com. On a side note, I use
Facebook as my main means of keeping people updated while I travel
now. Anyway, John stayed with us for a week while Shelby was being
born. That was so much fun because him and I were able to play
so much. He is so active and fun anymore, we can play for hours
or read books and he just loves spending time with his uncle and
is even starting to say Brock now :)
In other medical news things have not been easy since getting
home for either myself or my mother. While I was playing basketball
on September 17 I injured my left knee really badly. I tried to
basically just tough it out for a month but when the knee didn't
get better I eventually gave in and paid to get an MRI done. This
MRI revealed 4 separate issues with the first 2 both requiring
surgery to correct them. Those 2 were the complete ACL Tear (which
was my worst fear because I already had torn my right knee ACL
and experienced the long & difficult recovery) & a torn
meniscus, which is the thing that requires surgery the quickest.
After discussing the options with the surgeon (the same one who
operated on my right knee) I knew that if I was to have to operation
done I would have to give up the spring semester in Guadalajara.
So under his advice I have postponed the surgery until at least
next August when I get back from the studying abroad and my summer
trip. I have been rehabbing it on my own and have been swimming
up to 1.5 miles and running up to 4 miles so in a sense it is
better. However, it still hurts often and I can't play any sports
and even have to be careful about how I step as to not tear the
meniscus completely, because I guess at that point there is no
operation to fix it. Things have been even more difficult for
my mom. She has had back pain for years and this past summer after
exploring several options came to the conclusion that she had
to have major back surgery. In fact she required several different
procedures, but they were able to do them all on the same day,
October 13. I spent most of the first 4 days with her in the hospital
(along with my brother and father in shifts), and she needed us
because due to all the drugs required she was really out of it.
After that we brought her home where we were able to help her
rehabilitate. A large reason I decided to live at home and do
the 40+ minute drive each way to school this fall was so I could
help her after her surgery. She was a really good patient and
although she has had a lot of pain and some other issues along
the way overall she is doing great. At the 6 week checkup the
doctor told her that she was in the "small category of people
who are doing really well", so that is great. Her main rehab
has been walking and she is up to 1.6 miles, which is great considering
she was using a walker when she came home. Before the surgery
she was starting to lose feeling in her legs and when the surgeon
operated he found extensive nerve damage to the legs. So when
you add the back issues to the nerve problems we could not be
happier where she is now.
In happier family news the entire family went fishing (and yes
of course it was catch and release!) & my brother Thad and
I went deer hunting in the new deer shack (see Deer_Shack picture)
he built for us this past spring. We have also had several family
gatherings due to weddings or holidays and have more to come in
the next couple weeks. In addition to that there have been a couple
of other things that stood out as fun events. On October 28, the
Investment Club that I am part of at the UWP went to the Chicago
Board Options Exchange (CBOE). This was really cool especially
being a person who is really interested in the finance field.
The CBOE has been closed to the public since September 11, 2001.
However, we were able to not only go there and see the real traders
trade in the S&P pits, but we also got to go onto the floor
and they did a mock trading session for us, plus fed us and gave
us a few workshops (see CBOE picture). One of our members, Drew,
got this through his account and it was quite a cool event, the
8 of us who went had a blast. On December 4, I was able to attend
the Big Bad Voodoo Daddy concert that was held at UWP with Becky
and Travis, who are both members in the UWP Swing Dance Club.
When we swing dance Big Bad Voodoo Daddy is one of the main bands
we listen to so it was great to see them in concert.
Well since her name came up lets discuss Becky some more :) I
met her at the UWP Swing Dance club last year at the beginning
of the second semester, in late January. We were both new on the
same night and have been swing dance partners ever since. To be
honest she is much better at it than I am and is even the president
of the club now. Either way we have always hung out a fair amount
and have been good friends since we met in the club. This semester
I would even stay at her dorm room when I went to swing dance
since it was late on Tuesday night, so I could swim laps and then
go to school early the next day. Well in the past several weeks
we have started dating and it has been going great! We have already
did the "meet the parents" which went well on both sides.
She is a hard worker so she is quite busy even though university
is done, but we are planning to spend as much time together as
possible before I leave on January 3. Plus she has her birthday
only 3 days before mine so we will be celebrating that on December
27. Yeah us December kids rock! While we are on the subject my
30th birthday is happening on December 30..ok so maybe I am not
a December KID anymore :( I am going to celebrate with my family
on December 28 during the day but don't have plans, other than
spending time with Becky for December 30 itself. I plan to send
out a separate email about this to people in the area, which will
be coming soon, but if you want to do something just let me know!
I guess that means all that is left to talk about for the past
6 months is how my semester at UWP went. It was a busy one with
some hard classes and 18 credits which was a lot to deal with
at points, especially considering everything else that was going
on. But as of Wednesday I finished my semester and it is looking
like I did pretty well so that is great. Besides the obvious homework,
papers, reading and studying I spent a lot of time preparing for
next semester in Guadalajara, Mexico. One of the biggest things
for this was the massive amounts of paperwork that I needed to
do. This breaks down into 2 separate but equally daunting areas.
First is the application process which ended up requiring 6 separate
sets of paperwork (12 when you consider that I did it all for
Joan too). This literally took weeks of time to pull together
because of all the forms, signatures, permissions, and everything
else that was needed for it. Also there were the scholarships
that I went after to try to fund the financial end of studying
abroad. There were really 4 scholarships I was going after and
only one of them was pretty much guaranteed. The other 3 all had
massive amounts of competition and I spent weeks refining my application
and pulling together everything I needed for them. In the end
it all paid off as I received all of the four scholarships I applied
for (a total of $3,400). Needless to say I was really happy that
I was able to receive so much help for what was going to be a
fairly expensive semester.
Well I have referenced it several times and it will be the last
part of the email. I will be leaving January 3, 2009 to fly to
Guadalajara, Mexico where I will be studying Spanish at the Universidad
Autonama de Guadalajara until May 15, 2009. Once I am done with
school I will be taking the rest of the summer to travel in Spanish
speaking countries. While I am studying I will be taking day trips
within Mexico so I am guessing I will want to go somewhere else
for my summer trip. Right now I am leaning towards South America
for the trip (maybe Colombia, Ecuador, Peru, Bolivia), but to
be honest I am really open. Originally I was looking at Central
America (especially Guatemala), but after reading about the country
it sounds like June and July would not be the best months due
to the rainy season, mosquitoes and tourist high season. Either
way I guess I am open to ideas and will figure out the summer
while I am in Mexico studying. One interesting difference for
this trip will be that I will be home for 2 weeks. At Easter break
we get 2 weeks off, so from April 4 until April 18 I will be home.
I already have my flights bought so if you want to get together
before I leave or while I am back let me know. My program will
be pretty cool because it is a Spanish immersion. I study for
4 hours in the morning (9am to 1pm), 2 hours grammar and composition
and another 2 hours of speaking. In the afternoon my mission is
to go out into the public and speak to people in Spanish. Between
this program and the summer trip I hope to be fluent in Spanish
when I come home and as long as I do well with my classes (and
test into the level I want when I get there) I will have completed
my Spanish minor. Being as independent as I am I knew that I couldn't
do the home stay option the program wants you to do. So I am renting
my own apartment. This means anyone who wants to visit me while
I am in Guadalajara is more than welcome to!! Yep I am offering
an apartment I don't have yet as a free place to crash. Of course
I would have to go to all my classes, but otherwise I am willing
to entertain anyone who comes down. I am not thinking the apartment
is going to be much, but hey free is hard to argue with! Anyway
if this sounds interesting to anyone let me know :)
Well that is probably a long enough of an email for now, but
hey 6 months makes a lot to cover! It would be great to hear from
everyone and as I stated earlier Facebook is the place I keep
updated the best now, so if you want to add me as a friend on
there, just search for my brock@genextsoftware.com email.
I added a lot of new people to the email update this time, I
hope you all enjoyed it. If you want off the list just let me
know and it will be done!
Merry Christmas, Happy New Years and Happy Holidays to Everyone,
Love & Peace!